WHAT IS PROBATE?
Probate is the process of "proving" a Will. Your Executor (the person responsible for administering your estate) takes your Will to the Courthouse and "proves" it genuine by registering it and filing affidavits concerning and notifying the known heirs. Then the Executor gathers and distributes your assets and reports back to the Court.
There are ways to avoid probate. Usually this means establishing a Living Trust. You put all your assets in the Trust and you are the trustee controlling them. When you die, the Trust assets don't go through probate but continue to be administered in the Trust by the person you have named as the successor trustee. This saves your heirs from the expense and delay in settling the estate through probate. Trust assets can be distributed in a few weeks not years, and at very little expense. As an extra bonus, a Trust keeps your affairs private where the probate process makes them part of the public record for everyone to see.